Hi, I’m Evan.
Welcome To My Sober Life.
I’m a 30-year-old who, after years of binge drinking and struggling with the pressures of city life, decided to make a life-changing choice: to go sober. It hasn’t been an easy road, but the rewards have been worth it. From dealing with social pressures to finding new ways to enjoy events without alcohol, I’ve faced plenty of challenges along the way.
Through Big City Sober, I want to share my ongoing journey and offer guidance to anyone facing similar struggles. Whether you’re thinking about quitting drinking, are sober-curious, or already living alcohol-free, this space is for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Why did I decide to go sober?
After years of binge drinking and struggling with the negative impact on my mental health, I decided to make a change. Stopping alcohol was the only practical solution I could see to regain control over all aspects of my life.
2. What Were the Biggest Challenges I faced When Going Sober?
The hardest part was overcoming social pressure. Going sober in the UK as a young adult means doing something different from most people around you, and that can be tough.
3. How Do I Handle Social Situations Without Alcohol?
I’ve learned to enjoy socialising without relying on alcohol by setting boundaries, staying confident in my decision, and finding non-alcoholic alternatives. It has been a steep learning curve, but with time it has become second nature.
4. How Has My Life Changed Since Going Sober?
Sobriety has changed every aspect of my life. My anxiety levels have dropped, my self-confidence has risen, and I’m a better friend, partner, and all-around individual now that I don’t drink. It truly has been the best decision of my life.